HEZ SESSIONS
Reality Consultation
Shape your time with purpose.
Identify what you value and how to grow it.
Become more solid and deliberate in your life and in your work.
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I believe that curating your time, your days and your attention is a kind of world building. Any and all scales are the environment and atmosphere that allows more of what you want to become see-able, nameable and casually just part of who you are.
EEROTIC LENS:
What I am calling erotic is anything that gives you a feeling of aliveness or interest. This can be inclusive of sexual desires, but by no means does it need to be exclusive, or even about sex at all. I am interested in pulling from all parts of your life.
It's a kind of world building, using your time and days to populate your life with the most interesting, fascinating and important experiences you want to choose for the next part of your journey as a person.
Centering what genuinely turns you on, from a place of non-judgement, is a way of becoming the creator of your own beautiful landscape. Imagine when a desire comes to you, or you notice something as you walk through the world, that there is a correct-for-you version of that desire, just sitting on a delicious menu of experiences that you can definitely have.
When I have personally done these practices, by giving my desires and interests time and space, they become more real, more respected, more on purpose, as though they have an address to live at.
"Every song needs an address." - Tom Waits
Who this is for:
You are beginning a fresh season - What is turning you on right now? (example): Sunset colors, listening to Jazz at dawn, giving attention, working thoroughly on a project to completion, Thunder, Gucci. A personal menu of what motivates you and helps you thrive. This practice is a great starting place to get into the habit of noticing what you like.
You want to check in on your romantic and physical preferences - Craft a unique erotic menu of desires subtle to strong. Useful for dating, relationships, or just for yourself. Become an authority on your own tastes. Also a great seasonal practice. (tastes change).
You want a new job or type of work - What parts of other people's work look really good to me? When in the past did I love a work structure? Create a map of your ideal work world.
You are re-approaching work you already do - When do I feel satisfaction, efficiency, enjoyment and pride in what I do? Can another part of my life inform this?
You are reassessing a current project - Does this online class actually want to be a retreat? Would I secretly enjoy making a series of sculptures as part of this dance?
You are building the bones of a new idea - What am I most excited about digging into? What could I turn over to someone else? What feeling experiences do I want to have most while doing this?
You want more intel on your Femininity or Masculinity - Build a personal guidebook of your specific gender expression tastes, and start to note them more in the world. (note: this is for all expressions of Gender Identity).
TTIME WORK:
The time practices I use approach time from a more Queer perspective. This is world building. In this case we are noticing: Where do I feel stuck? and is time being treated like a weapon.
Examples: I got that wrong. I missed my chance. I am too far behind. I will never get to be X type of person.
Using practices that go in both time directions, we get a little more Queer about how we can use time like a tool. (note: this practice is for all orientations of people. Queer as in, more like a Wizard.)
The goal of these practices is to help you craft a more unique, personalized-to-you, gorgeous way of being in the world and about your business. Also, that you don't have to figure out the future on your own. You can do it with a buddy! And that buddy might be: future you.
Who this is for:
You want to move into a new identity and would like to know what scalable options could get you started.
You are wanting to start a new career, art practice or relationship.
You are wanting to shift your reality, and need doable guidance for how to get more into the world of who you are wanting to be.
You want to experience feeling more that you are in the right place and right time, and less that time is a threat to you.
You want to notice more possibilities and feel more ownership in your life, and less of feeling stuck in a pattern, thought loop, or feeling restricted by a limiting situation.
You want to give yourself the chance to have an important rite of passage that didn't happen at a certain time in your past. You would like to feel the results of that support and experience at your current age and timeline.
You generally want to experience having more power, choice and ownership in your life.